My now-walking one-year old went for the cupboards under the kitchen sink. Soaps, garbage and a specific no play zone, I put my foot it front of the doors and said no, explaining that she can't play in there. The defiance stage has kicked in, so a mild tantrum ensued. And then of course, as … Continue reading Additional Reminders to Trust My Kids
Helicopter parents. We all have seen them at the playground, hovering around their child's rear end as they climb a ladder. Or constantly reminding their child to be careful at various platforms throughout the jungle-gym. I've been there. The last thing I want to experience is my son or daughter getting hurt, and it's only … Continue reading Trust Children When Engaging in Risky Play
Defiance lerked around every corner when my son was in what I called the terrible threes. (Which in my opinion are much worse that the so-called terrible twos.) Everything seemed to provoke a stand off. Brushing teeth, getting into the car, getting dressed or asking to leave the sticks and rocks outdoors could all cause … Continue reading Giving the Gift of Free Choice–Or At Least that Perception
Father Through Me 